When relationships go wrong and arguments occur it can be worrying for both parents, especially when children are around.
Deciding to leave is a big upheaval but for some it is the only option, especially if there is violence or emotional abuse.
There are a few strategies to try if there is no violence/abuse, before you move out:
- Agree not to argue when the children are around
- If you are talking and things begin to escalate, agree to take a ‘time out’
- Perhaps relationship therapy might help you to have the most difficult conversations
Reassure your children that although you are not getting on at the moment, you are trying to resolve things. Remind them it’s not their fault and that you both love them.