It can be really easy to make a hasty decision, especially during an argument. When making decisions, remember that one of you is coping with a bombshell, even if you think it’s been obvious for ages that things are not OK. Take time when making important decisions – there is no hurry to decide in the moment. Waiting a week or two and having conversations will really help in the long run. Often hasty decisions are made when feelings are running high. We often see things differently once we have calmed down.
